“The quality of our expectations determines the quality of our action.”
– A. Godin
One of the biggest mistakes made by those who manage their own family law matters is having unrealistic expectations. Sometimes those expectations relate to what the law says. Sometimes those expectations relate to what can be accomplished at any given stage. Sometimes those expectations relate to the quality of their material.
When you hire a lawyer on a limited scope basis, you will get clear expectations about that specific piece. For example, if you hire a lawyer to prepare motion material for you, the lawyer will ensure that the material includes the proper forms, the evidence needed, and if the court requires it, a factum. The lawyer will also discuss offers to settle and ensure you understand the consequences associated with making and/or not accepting an offer to settle.
When you hire a lawyer on a legal coaching basis, you will have the opportunity to ask the lawyer any questions you have. Having the answers to your questions when you need them helps you to approach each step with clear expectations. For example, you may want to know what will happen at the hearing of a motion or what would be the consequences of not making and/or not accepting an offer to settle.
With your expectations set, you can determine your best course of action. Realistic expectations help you to be more successful or to be prepared to take a calculated risk.
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